Find yourself first. Who you are, your humanity, your morals and ethics. When you know what this is - then finding the gentleman who will sweep you off your feet will be easier to see. There are many who will say how pretty you are and how they will want to get to know you...take your time, find yourself, experience life, cultures, and learn how to establish who you are as an individual first. You will find many friends along the way and when you finally know who you really are - you will be able to see the one other person who completes you as much as you complete them. It doesn't matter who they are on the outside (meaning their status and beauty), it only matters who they are on the inside (just as above). There a fewer real men of character, decent men, men of good moral standing in the world and you look like a person who has an expectation right now that your prince charming will come along and define you - this would be a mistake that you will later in your life about 7 to 20 years into your marriage regret. Take your time, become a person first - then add another whole person into your life. So that instead of "2 become 1" (which is really 1/2 + 1/2 = 1) you and your mate will have the powerful formula of 1+1=2. As you can see this gives you and your relationship 200% more than the other. So, my sincere blessing for you is that you define who you are by taking on the responsibility yourself, because no one knows "you" better than "you". I hope that these words will guide you to a beautiful life and the relationship of your future dreams. |
