Time took our masterpiece we built and broke it in two... dont you think...? So... heres me ....Im the kind of girl you can hear from 'Miles' away... The kind that if your 'sad' its her job to make you 'happy'.. The kind of girl who keeps messing up n saying 'Oooops sorry' i trip over 'everything' im such a clutz & i get so mad at the 'simplest' things BUT if you ask me what wrong ill just lie and smile and say 'nothing' .. Im the girl whos afraid to 'love' because she 'already' lost so much.....

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals

In life you will realised that the people you meet have a purpose. Some were put there to test you, some would use you, some would teach you, and some would bring out the better if not the best in you. Some may even cause you pain and heartache but one must learn to move on. So let go of the people who can't treat you right and hold on to those who love you back and see your worth. Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoices over wrong doings, but rejoices with the truth, it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things endures all things but most of all love never fails. You want to know more? Just ask

Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened. Tears are words the heart can't express. Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for. Love is patient, love is kind, love does not brag and love is not arrogant. Love's beauty is not in the way it compromises what is best nor does it accept what is inferior, but is very keen to demonstrate it's nature of giving. Love excels in what we find the hardest to do..waiting rather than demanding; extending tender care even when the other doesn't deserve it; fulfilling the other's need rather than one's own desire; acknowledging one's own weakness rather than clamoring for compliments to feed one's pride. Lastly, love by definition does not stop. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things. Love is being kept up all night because you cannot think of anything but your hearts desire...Love is one touch leaving you breathless.

We have to realize that love is not enough to make a relationship work.. we need trust, respect, time , effort, dedication. If a person doesn't show respect, doesnt earn your trust and can't keep a total commitment and faithfulness no matter how many times they say " I Love You" those words will be empty, take time to listen and be patient to every words they say .. take time to watch for every moves and actions they make because these are a secret behind those words. So don't let passion and selfish deisre but wisdom and knowledge decided for you, Love Real and wisely because it's never easy to love and get hurt at the end.